I know it has been a long time, but I have not forgotten where this board got me..
Most of you are newcomers here..there are still a few of us "older"ones.
Happy New Year to all.....it has been a year of many emotions for me..starting out wondering how I was going to move on with my life..alone..then on Feb 2..boom he comes over to "talk"..I just knew what was to come.>WRONG...he wanted to come back...I won't go into details...find my posts and read if you really want to..it might give hope to others.
Well, in May we renewed our vows and today are very happy..again. It took time, PATIENCE, CHANGES on my part, but know that it can happen.Society doesn't think that sepearted couples can get back together, but I know they can.
Take care of yourselfs...this board was a lifesaver for me..it helped me change me..it supported me when there was no one else to turn to, I found some pretty neat friends too...most of all everyone here helped me belive in myself and my values...I knew a year ago that I could make it on my own..I didn not want ot, but I wanted my h to be happy, and I prayed that God would help him find that happiness..look what I got. I had told that to our pastor a while before that, and she said "God answers our prayers in His time,but we might now always like the answers" I did turn to prayer and belief that God does take care of us, when we ask. I also learned a very valuble lesson on forgiveness..my h had a short pa...I susspected it for along time..he denied..all the stuff you have heard..but I loved him despite that, and I forgave him long before he asked to come back. Does it hurt..sure.he betrayed our vows, but he also asked for forgiveness. You can say you forgive..words are easy to say...you really have to open your heart and mind to make it successful.
Enough going on.......I hope everyone that reads this will keep a glimour of hope alive. If your was needs space........give it to them.....seperating was hard..but it is what he asked for, and I gave it.
Best of luck to all.....I will say a prayer for all on this wonderful board, that you too, may finf the happiness and peace that you are seeking.
