Happy New Year! You've come a long, long way. I can relate to so much if what you wrote. I'm 10 years ahead of you -my sign up date is wrong here. I changed names twice before (long story) - arrived at the hoard Nov 01. And a month later my ex left OW & came back to me for Christmas though he never made it past Dec 23. It was heartbreaking for the kids & I. But that's a prize I was never meant to have & she deserves him. I got a gift in the one I'm intended to be with. I hope you can meet him.

We fly to Kaui today then to Oahu on Mon. Ashley joins us the weekend after - late Sat night. Maybe we could see you sometime on Mon, Jan 13 unless you are working. We could also make it the day prior. Let me know - we don't have a lot of plans but picked those days so Ashley could come too.

2014 is a fresh start - an unwrapped gift. Hope it is your best evebarb