OMs, cycling, cakes and confusion Oh my Lord ;)

[2chiquitos]

Oh and about her changing her last name. Give it some time before you bring it up. You are still very caught up with your emotions. THey may or may not be what's driving your need for her to change her name.

FYI. I'm Chicana and most of the women in my family didn't change their name. In my defense, it's hurts my credentials. Everyone at my work knew me by my last name. If I change it, they won't know who I am unless they say my maiden name.
Also, doesn't mean she loves you any less...