Thanks Wonka for your reply, it is my lucky day. And enjoy NYE celebrations. 1. I will try and go back to the texting once a month. Did do it for a few months with the coaches view. It didn't go anywhere, but won't hurt again. Yes, I do remember your glacier story, time to store that in my mind again. Also the marathon not a sprint. 2. You are again right, I do need to be the bigger person now. For too long I just rode the wave of separation. I will ask her if we wish to organise a present and/or party. 3. I agree, I didn't think it would be the wisest thing to do. Just had to ask.
Thanks also planet for replying.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.