Thanks Wonka for your reply, it is my lucky day. And enjoy NYE celebrations.
1. I will try and go back to the texting once a month. Did do it for a few months with the coaches view. It didn't go anywhere, but won't hurt again.
Yes, I do remember your glacier story, time to store that in my mind again. Also the marathon not a sprint.
2. You are again right, I do need to be the bigger person now. For too long I just rode the wave of separation. I will ask her if we wish to organise a present and/or party.
3. I agree, I didn't think it would be the wisest thing to do. Just had to ask.


Thanks also planet for replying.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.