Thanks Fartiltre,

Its been a while since I have posted. Not much new. Had a couple of court dates and divorce settlement discussions. She has settled down a bit as far as her negativity. Maybe she is being nice for the holidays. Who knows...I don't really care anymore.

I have confirmed that she I indeed having a PA with OM (Frank). She went out last night and told the kids she was going to Rochester to see some friends from college. Im sure she might have gone there but then ended up with OM and stayed the night with him and had sex.

Don't ask me how I got this info because I cant divulge it at the moment just in case she has been tracking this site.

Its a hard pill to swallow but I no longer consider her my wife. I only consider her as my childrens mother.

I am hopeful that we will be divorced by March 4th now. That is when our next court date is. I cant hold on to the hope that things will ever get better and for my own sanity, I have to move on and start looking for happiness elsewhere.

I will try to post more later.

Happy New Year!


M46 W45 T12 M10 S9 D4
BD 2/13
Divorced 5/14