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[mj0221]

Tired, I just read what you wrote on my thread but decided to respond here for part of it. First, for you to be standing where you are today taking care of your kids the best you can for what all your H has done I think you deserve an award. Obviously as the saying goes, you just can't make that stuff up but what all you wrote, crazy....the story about the voting and calling your work for that question? Have you ever tried to get a support order from him? Can they make him get a job a support his children? It does sound like he keeps running. This latest ow will not put up with his unemployment status for long. Same as my H also though, even if he got rid of ow I think he has issues that need to be dealt with and that may not happen.

Do your best tired. Make 2014 a new year with goals. My therapist told me last session maybe it was time to start making goals. That was all he said. I've had a pretty good few days thinking about what I want in the next year and realized I have 3 distinct goals for the next year. H fits nowhere in them. All 3 of these goals will dramatically in the end make my life a lifestyle of less stress, more financially secure and probably spending more time with my girls, well D11 since D21 is usually away. Think about things for yourself and kids in mind.