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I had thought there was something up with someone he worked with in June and he was still talking about my question months later....defending himself to anyone that would listen. Adultery disgusts (DISGUSTS) him


Methinks he protests too much?

Honestly - women sometimes leave just to be on their own, but men almost NEVER leave without something with someone else going on. It could be as simple as an infatuation with that woman that never went anywhere, or an internet relationship with someone in another country, or a rekindled long-distance affair with an old flame. Or maybe he's a closeted gay having sex with men in public restrooms, who knows? All I know is, I'm hard-pressed to come up with even one example from these boards where the male WAS didn't eventually turn out to have SOMETHING going on with SOMEONE.

Not that it makes any difference, really - just be aware.