KML we're not friends he has just "unblocked" me which means I can search his profile, see his comments and "likes" on any mutual friends pages. Also, any photos, statuses or comments I have tagged him in, from when we were "friends" are now visible on his page again. My privacy settings don't allow for much access to my info but if I'm with one of our sons or one of our mutual friends he can see that (but, I've never blocked him so it was always "available" to him). I was also unfriended by all his sister's months ago so same rules apply.
As of this moment there is no OW....never has been OW. I think, that being so scarred from his dad's numerous affairs and mom's one, that, for him, that is a line he cannot cross (for now). Also, he knows, at some level, that if there was another woman our friends would "judge" him or he'd be made out to be the "[censored]" His words in other situations so I'm wondering if it applies to a woman too. I had thought there was something up with someone he worked with in June and he was still talking about my question months later....defending himself to anyone that would listen. Adultery disgusts (DISGUSTS) him.......I also think he thought I would up and find a man right away hoping to seal the deal for him.
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR