I guess the right approach might be like the one I took. I realize my ex left and cheated and hated etc... But I still had to be the one to leave her (emotionally). I had to end the relationship. At first it seemed "unfair" to be the one left to do her dirty work. But over time I realized...I didn't care about that in any other aspect of my life and I wasn't going to for that either.
I needed to be the one to end it emotionally. Like it or not, it needed to be done. It has been "interesting" to say the least, but it has also paid off like you would not believe.
Just one approach and something to think about.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
