Well, here is the update...Sun H picked up kids and they went to movies with same woman from Xmas. So, at this point there is no question it is a gf. According to both kids she pays for everything and she has a huge house and a lots of money. Since H has no job and no unemployment I am guessing this is his meal ticket at the moment. Not sure what type of woman would give a man money and pay for all his kids Xmas gifts but that is her problem. My S said he overheard her say her H left her and never sees her kids. She has 3 kids. Funny, bc my H had no interest in a family and now he is trying to work his way into hers. He suddenly has a renewed interest in my kids to make himself look good but they both say the minute they are out of her site he is the same nasty person he was prior. And, the funny thing is the kids said the gf keeps saying how nice it is to have my H around bc her kids need a father bc theirs hardly sees their dad and he cheated and left them. Oh, the irony...
MJ..my H does not give me any money at all. He left the house and all the bills to me. The house needs a ton of work too. He still on the car and health insurance that I am paying for as well as paying for all the kids expenses. You would think I had a good job but I don't and will lose the house if something doesn't change. I am trying to get my kids into therapy also at the moment. Their dad has turned them into angry kids and it upsets me because that isn't how they used to be.
AJ...you are right about not thinking about him. Still trying to focus on me. It seems to get harder with the revelation of the latest gf but there have been so many the past few years I am sure so I just have to put it out of mind.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
