Accuray's advice to you is pure gold. I hope you read it and reread it a few times.

I'd highly suggest not sharing your sitch with mutual friends. Keep your sitch to a couple of trustworthy friends who support the idea of you saving your M/R. It is difficult enough to go through this, without the additional influences. There is something at the beginning of the DR that covers this.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa