Thanks men. Decisiveness was me saying "I'll handle it." I made myself lunch downstairs and made S12 something to eat. She was in his room talking quietly to him about god knows what when I delivered his lunch. He smiled and said, "Thanks Daddy." Enough for me. Screw her and her craziness.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13