Just let her spew etc, the more she does it the faster she'll burn it out. It took W from Nov 2011 to Aril 2012 to burn hers out (at least the T2 part)...she then had to burn out her anger at life, her past, herself for a while longer...but at least it wasn't directed AT ME anymore because I gave her no ammo and let her rage.
And when she did I would ask "are you mad at something I did, did not do, say, or not say?" At first there was, then as time went on it became less and less "me"...as if by expressing her anger at me it got worked out of her system, then she could focus on other things to be angry at or had been angry at.
Man I can tell you I almost cried the day when she said "no, actually, it's not you, huh?" The confused look on her face was priceless, and the dawning realization was even more so... Patience...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
