Blues, this just sux sometimes...or a lot of the time.

Only you know when you'e done and if you're you are, you are.

In DB the advice is don't have R talks but once you're trying to rebuild a R, you have to have R talks. Do you believe he is in a place to rebuild?

Is he still involved with the OW? If so, his talk about you ruining the night is a bit manipulative, don't you think? Don't jump on his rollercoaster.

What would you need to see and hear from him to know he's ready to build a new R with you?


((( )))

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss