It is true that now we can really have the life we wanted. Its not the same as we may have imagined but we can really have everything.

It used to be such a pain to drag H to any activity on the weekends, now I can just drag the girls.

I am close with another single mom who I met through Alanon. She has a son my older D age and she gives me someone to do stuff with. Its less isolating. I still am friends with parents that are couples but my single mom friend is more available.

Hang in there. We are blessed


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13