Reaching out for support and advice 2

[melissag]

Blues, I know this is easier said than done, but don't be angry with yourself. You are only human, and anyone in this situation would be as miserable as you are feeling right now. You know that it is best for you not to share that with H (IMO, the same goes for being "done," because I am not sure you are really willing to be done, or would be done, no matter what you do at this point), but I know it is hard not to. It is incredibly hard. You can do it, though. I love 3's idea, and I bet it will help you to do something similar. One of the benefits is that it will give you a goal - a chance to feel like you are doing something.

Great job of letting the argument go tonight - count that toward your 30 days!