ok so wife told me that she wants us to stay overnight for new years/my birthday at a beach resort. She wants alone time for just the two of us to 'talk'. She said this not in a bomb drop way, but in a soft loving voice...
So, i think its going to be the talk about how to straighten this mess out.
Thoughts? It will be easy enough to stay away from physical intimacy given the std situation. But what about emotionally? I think I can hold it together but I'm also worried about some of my anger coming out..
How soon does lbs express and let out the anger? Is it too early? Should I keep it light like I'm not sure what I want?
Opinions are welcome and encouraged. Thanks guys and gals!
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
