Chinks in the Armor & still Standing on that Hill

[Pudmuddle]

We are getting there Heather, just takes a lot of work on ourselves which is hard to do sometimes.

FY, yes I agree. The things that I wrote were more realizations of things I do or did and realizing I can do nothing about him or our marriage. I can begin to let go and work on myself, the only thing I have control of is wonderful me.

Knock my head a couple of times and I get it. Ok, a couple thousand times. I'm with ya FY.