2nd time around. H wants D. I don't

[NotAgainPlease]

I am not sure if I mentioned H started getting depressed this last year. He has applied and tested for a lot!of jobs. H is a medi/firefighter. H really thought he was getting a job in July and didnt.
Went to High School reunion started EA with classmate after that. The week before he went he got a notice to interview for a job. 2 weeks later he got the job. After all the tedious process Wi H was about another 2 weeks H found out the city put a freeze on the job....it was then I found out about OW and he wanted a divorce.
We had been not getting along a few weeks before his reunion.

H seems to talk to OW when he gets stressed...This was the first that's gone somewhere.
Job, I know you mentioned H is angry about breaking it off with OW. I'm sure it's true. H did whoever say many times he had to it wasn't going any where. OW is married and lives 3 hours away. But I'm sure he still blames me...