wife moved to.parents house last week scared

[paul19510]

thanks love! I really appreciate your kind words. I have another question. My W rarely comes into the house now. She summons the kids to the driveway from her phone. its odd to me.

Today she was supposed to pick up out S12 for an overnight. he did not answer his cell so W had D13 who was with her at the time call the home phone. I answered. She told me she was trying to reach S 12. I said I was on a call ( I work from home) and to just come inside and find him somewhere upstairs as I was in my basement office on a call. She sent our D13 in to find him. I called her back a few minutes later and asked why she wouldn't come in. I think that was kind of strange. She's been doing it for a couple of weeks now.

She said it was no big deal and she just didn't have time to. She had stopped over a neighbors house while S12 got ready to go.

I know she comes in sometimes, because she came in to retrieve some items from her closet while I was at S12's hockey tournament 100 miles away on Saturday. I had told her I would not be here due to the distance and just in case the 2 other kids that were still home D13 and D16 needed anything. Why do you think she does that? does it mean something more "final"?

I just politely reminded her that this is our home and she should come in for things like this....