yes things are slow in the divorce forum so I have move to another forum on another site where I am interacting with people every day.
You not speaking to your W or even answering her text is called no contact on this other site and is something that is advocated to help protect your heart and your sanity. I use that with W as we are still living in the same house.
I'm glad you are getting back into your swing dancing, and yes as a (newly) divorced man you will attract attention from the ladies, but as you know and as has been said take your time in looking for a friend, companion or soul mate.