Tina - I am so sorry to read your update. I think that you have a good plan to start individual counseling and GAL. I dont think that you need to jump and make a decision as to whether to file for D at this time. Since you H continues to come and go, it has probably hindered your progress over the past 1 1/2 years. It really is time to focus on yourself! It seems like your H is searching for something that will magically make him happy. He cant find it with you or without you because he has not figured that true happiness comes from within. So while your H searches for something that does not exist, you need to find your own true happiness, whatever that may look like.
You have time on your side. There is not rush to D or R. Take your time.
