Thanks NQ I feel that I'm having a harder time convincing them on the hero's spouse forum that I'm done, but I've made some friends there and they've also been supportive The difference there is that you don't give them your story or any background to your sitch. You just tell them what is going on at the mo. I've now related the whole story to them on my thread and this will hopefully help them change their mind
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!