Very nicely done. I suspect you will hear some backlash from that, but I agree - gotta be you!
Did you happen to notice T2's thread recently? He's been at this a while. He made a list and noticed he had a pretty good life and a pretty full one. He has built a life where his W can only add. She can no longer subtract from his life.
Something to think about as you go along
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."