I'm so sorry that you're facing some awful flak from your ILs. Remember how SIL contacted you after the hearing? H was not happy about the outcome at Court and I think it is when he truly began to vilify you. It has gone on and it has probably multiplied over the holidays with H's spewing. Otherwise why would the MLCer leave a great spouse? They need to vilify and demonize the LBS spouse so they have 'grounds' to leave them. Silly!
Oh yeah...I've heard that Ms. Wonka vilify me and that really HURT. But I just kept on being me by STFU and I noticed that our mutual friends looked at me with puzzled expression as why they were not able to truly reconcile the picture Ms. Wonka painted of me and seeing me in action in person. Bide your time...the truth will eventually emerge.
Ignore silly blather coming from H and the ILs. As for the homelessness, I don't buy it. It is H' choice to leave you and the marital house. Silly man!!
