Divorce on the table, Hoping for miracle

[Groov]

What would it profit me to force a R talk? She hasn't wanted to address the issues thus far...

My actions could just be seen as pursuing. Besides in DR you don't ask what you don't want to hear...

As far as Divorce/ Asset division. It's a tough one... What does the community advise? Buck up and just deal with it? Make it as amicable as possible? Ruin the years of hard work?

As far as the phone thing on Christmas... does it just confirm what I already know... That she has something to hide.

If I act and push. Like exposing what I know, getting the church involved. Does this bode well for me for reconciliation. I am not sure... Doing nothing except focus on me and my kids. Is this my test here.

I am standing... for marriage... for the right thing to do... How long will I stand. As long as it takes to have absolutely no questions, no regrets. What else can I do when I want to keep hope alive.

Groov