My personal assignment for this thread is to start letting him go. I have still been trying to fix him and make him all better, pointing out his hurt and flaws like he didn't know this. He knows it, just doesn't know how to deal with it...yet. He may never know how or want to and I have realized that now after our last go around. He may realize it and want to step up, but I may not be around. For the first time, I am ok with that.
I have this gut feeling that this time things will go farther down the path to Dville, and I am ok with that too. I think our sitch needs to get deeper in the bog before anything will change.
I am ready, bring it on.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
