Heather, what an awesome story. I did say if he wanted D, then go for it, I don't agree with it but do what you feel you must do.

You said exactly the right thing, so you are very helpful and I appreciate the love you always show.

Things in our M feel different this time, like it will be headed for Dville, but I am ok with that now. I don't want to live with someone who refuses to change or does not want to be happy. Maybe he will change, but maybe I won't be around for him when he does either. The person I saw last night was not him, and yes I needed the reminder that he is still deep in the fog and mlc, even as much as the spew hurt, I really feel like I needed to see it, to see that he is not as normal as he appears most of the time.

Love you Heather, you are the best. Thank you.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.