I don't know. I haven't had any time to breathe and things just moves too fast. My head spins. I haven't had any time to detach on my own timeline and I find myself having to deal with OM there on weekdays while I spend time with my kids. He stays overnight on weekends for a month and now it's weekdays also.

Maybe it's because Chinese New Year is coming soon. I remember XW and I invited OM over for dinner last year. We were still husband and wife then. Haven't fully accepted my situation.

I understand that WAW don't change their stance this soon. It's only been 6months after BD. I still harbour hope that she will return to me.
What I want most is an intact family with both biological parents and our kids living happily together.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet