You know, my friend, we all have choices in life. Sometimes, if you work hard enough, if you are open enough, and willing enough, the choices you make can bring about something amazing.
So, your marriage may not have the same feel as it once did. The core, the foundation was rocked. The feelings of abandon regarding the trust you had, the beliefs.
But I think that your new marriage, if you and he make the choice, can be deeper and richer because you make the choice to stay together, to work it through, to take a leap of faith.
And I think then, that the foundation can be stronger than it was before - because it is no longer just based on feelings of love.
It is based on choice. It is based on the fact that you know it can be broken.
Yet, you choose to be together, you choose to want it to work, you choose to accept that love is fragile, but, you are strong enough to hold it gently.
I know you have real feelings about what happened. This isnt an easy road you have chosen. It is a long, difficult one.
But, I think, if you both do the work, it can be something really amazing again.
And that is my great hope for you both. That you see how special it is that you both took the chance and then chose the less taken.
