planet, the reality of your current situation is your XW and she is that even tho the D isn't completed has a BF and he lives with her. He's been there for a while. Why are you now surprised that he's there "permanently"?
Were you hoping she would have second thoughts maybe? Would you really want her back and if so, what makes you want her back.
Stay out of the family drama as much as you can.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
