wife hardens heart-6

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My situation has taken another big turn. How many BS does one have to take shoved down their throat?
OM have moved in permanently. He had my desk moved to the guest room to use. At this rate, I'm going to bet those two will get married soon after XW and I receive our divorce cert.


Got a confession to make.
Had a fun gathering with some old school mates on sat. Lost track of the time and had roughly about 40 minutes to pick up my girls. Left the party and decided to return home to drop off something. My brother and his GF was there and we ended up chatting. By the time I realized the time, it was pretty late so I texted XW and said I wasn't coming over.
XW gave me a piece of her mind and rightly so. Felt so guilty about my kids so I called XW to give me some time to come over but she was so upset that she refused to listen. I deserved it. My kids don't.


On one moment of vulnerability a few weeks back, I told my sis about OM. She didn't say anything much and wasn't angry nor upset over this issue. For a moment there, I asked myself if she's family at all. Why aren't she upset for her brother?
She acted admirably. Never said anything bad about XW as if she understood XW.
Fast forward to last week. My mom asked about XW's BF. To my horror, I didn't know what to answer. I told her to keep this to herself as I did not speak to her about OM. I asked my sister and she confessed that she told mom, bro and her BF. I immediately asked her to never speak of this to anyone again.
My fault. I should have told her to keep this to herself earlier.
Right now, I should do some damage control.