Hang in there BH. If it makes you feel better, my soon to be waw is still in the house and that has its own sense of a dagger in the heart...... While we are both suffering, we aren't doing it alone!

Definately read. I read divorce busting, haven't ready divorce remedy which i think is nothing more than an updated version of divorce busting. Anyway, i have wound up with two copies of divorce remedy as i accidently ordered it twice. Perhaps that is a sign that there is something in there i need to pay attention to smile

What searches have produced any material of relevance? I found some stuff, mostly redundant at not really for a situation as serious as ours. Some good stuff as well but i think the process of d'bing held a slight edge over the other stuff. However, if you have found anything of use/interest, please advise.


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6