Hey Rock! It is interesting that you have a fun dance thing to go back to. I used to swing dance when I was in HS/college. It is one of the jokes I used to tell that turned out to not really be a joke. I used to say if you love to dance don't marry someone who doesn't.
At our VA party a few weeks ago I ended up out on the floor dancing with someone who was making up their own version of swing dancing. He was spinning me and doing other swing moves. Bit in no relationship to any dance style I ever saw. (Kinda hurting me, too) I asked him what he was doing and he said it was New Jersey Disco. I told him I only knew Northern California stuff and got out of his clutches.
But you just gave me the inspiration to go to a swing dancing class/group one of my friends goes to.
I miss being married, too. But it sounds like you are doing the right things and moving at the pace you need to.
I will report back on Hawaii Swing Dancing!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!