I think it was easier letting ex's family go then trying to keep them in my life. Things were saiid that were very hurtful. I still love his Mom but it is easier just having moments here and there.

It was hard enough getting the five of us to a better place, let alone trying to help his family. I did find out after the divorce via my kids that they tried to convince their son that he was making a terrible mistake. A little late I suppose.

Heal yourself. If you want a relationship without them fine but if you want to keep them in your life, that is something worth working out. No one says that you have to include your ex.

kat


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