Hey Mooka..h said when I am ready for him to move home..he probably can't get out of lease until Nov..so we are going to go slow and see what happens..he won't stay at the house because bed too small!!I told him today that being at his apt. is like a motel..not homey..so might get new bed..I did ask him last night if he thinks we will make it..he said that is what he is hoping, and I asked him if he wants to grow old with me..yes was the answer..a few years ago when things were getting rocky..I had asked him that, and he responded with "Not sure anymore"..so it made me feel good.He asked me to a movie tonight..so at least he is doing some of the asking.
I am so happy that you think I have been a help..I know that you have to hang on through all the ups and downs..but also to know that you are a whole person and if the final plan is not to be together that you can go on.