PM,
I am a guy teetering on what the hell am I doing holding on to this crazy person for every day. I am not a perfect unconditional loving husband and to be honest with everyone if it were not for my daughter I would have told my wife to take a hike a long time ago!
One thing about people that can't make up there mind. They are stupid. They think that they are delaying by not choosing but reality is by not choosing they are actually making a choice. The choice that suits them individually not the couple. I have no doubt that if my wife had the money to do so she would have been long gone. She doesn't though so she stays in a loveless marriage because it is safe. Safe and free of choices. Well to heck with all of the indifferent spouses in the world. Set parameters and if they are so lost that they can't see how good they have it then screw them!
Move on with your life. You and I will be better off for it. Period.
And yes I am bitter right now.


Wife emotionally checked out 2 years ago
ILYBNLWY 2/1/2013
M-48, W-40
D-9
Living together in separation for daughter