Don't worry, I'm putting FY on groupie control - lol!
You are absolutely right in that you have worked to create a full and happy life for you and your family. A renewed M with your W would enhance what you have already created. You aren't dependent on her anymore for your happiness - what a wonderful gift to yourself and her!
Your story isn't over yet my friend - not even close
PS - keep us posted on that cocoon
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."