bent not broken

[willbwell]

ok, sorry, but I have to post about h again. NEED ADVICE.D is coming quick...
h and boys are skiing due back in town tomorrow.
h calls to see if they should get a cab/. I said no. I'll pick them up.
all texts /convo's to this point going usual,amicable.

h asks about d15 staying with him tomorrow night.
says he's leaving town on Tue. for work.
He did this last year-last minute. h was full of headcold but had to go to Chicago

I said we'd talk when he got back that I had wanted him to have d tue night as I had plans.
He immediately gets Angry and starts bringing up discussing the D papers.
I said sure we'll talk about it when he gets back.I did ask what he was going out of town for. He says work.

He is high enough up in his co. He doesn't HAVE to work NYE.
I did not say this to him or that I do not buy it.

he continues with the papers talk.I said he's getting angry and its about choices.

my plans are no big deal and really I have never been a fan of going out NYE. I was only doing it because of the sit...
Not really for ME.

If I say to h now, I've changed my plans. Go ahead and leave town. no worries. Do I look like the compassionate, kind person that I always am? OR the stupid fool that allows h to do whatever it is that HE WANTS?

I'll just love you from a distance. You go do what it is that you feel the need to do. Here I am standing. ignoring. trying to be patient and feeling my own self respect take a hit

BTW, both h and ow work for an airline, so travel anyday any time is a nonissue.

I see the getting mad when he doesn't get his way...