Hi..Deb..I did not have a clue that this was coming..as much as a few days before I had told my coworkers at work that it looked like it probably would eventually go to d..they must really be wondering now!!!
H contributes it to a "God moment" ( a phrase our pastor uses alot)..that something made him see it all before him..that he needed to get the heavy burden off his shoulders..so here we are. It still is alot for me to believe sometimes...scary..exciting and everything in between.
Sue, Thanks so much for visiting my post.....I wanted to get your insights on my recent events in my sitch. What you said makes so much sence. I will try to hang tough, you are a great role model. THANKS-SO-MUCH!!
Hi hoping, not sure if you remember me, its been quite a long time since I've posted on any threads. But I have been trying to keep up on some of the threads, yours included!
I am sooo happy for you and H!! And its nice to see that the 2 of you are taking it slowly, dating again. I hope all the best for your R and M to work out. You've waited a long time, just like me!
My H is starting to come around too. I started a new thread if you want to refresh. I actually got flowers today! How's that for a shock! Maybe my H and I can follow in your footsteps on the road to a reconciliation.
So wonderful to read such uplifting stories! And a thumbs up from me about going to the bowling alley, not sure if I would have had the courage. But you did, nothing to hide from and everything to gain!!
Take care and have fun!
JL
Life is not measured in the breaths we take, but in the moments that take our breath away...
Hi,,All..just a quick update..went with h to bowling again..on the way home I told him I am not going again..he asked why..I said it makes me sick to look at her and to see them laughing and high-fiving..he said ok...I really kinda ruined the rest of the evening, as I was so quiet and bothered that it got to me..I told him that these things are bound to come out along he way..he was willing to listen and even talk to me about them..I told him I was worried that someone else might come along..he said" it will never happen again"..I don't like having these doubts..but am dealing with them as they come.
Otherwise things are great...we talk almost daily and see each other a few times during the week and on weekends. There is always hope for those who are willing to believe and wait..
There is always hope for those will tobelieve and wait
That is a great one to old onto. Thanks so much for continuing to update us and give all all "HOPE." You are being so honest with H...love that you are communicating so well. Has he mentioned a timeframe to move back home?
Thinking of you. God is definately shining through you to all of us "HOPEFULS!"
Hey Mooka..h said when I am ready for him to move home..he probably can't get out of lease until Nov..so we are going to go slow and see what happens..he won't stay at the house because bed too small!!I told him today that being at his apt. is like a motel..not homey..so might get new bed..I did ask him last night if he thinks we will make it..he said that is what he is hoping, and I asked him if he wants to grow old with me..yes was the answer..a few years ago when things were getting rocky..I had asked him that, and he responded with "Not sure anymore"..so it made me feel good.He asked me to a movie tonight..so at least he is doing some of the asking.
I am so happy that you think I have been a help..I know that you have to hang on through all the ups and downs..but also to know that you are a whole person and if the final plan is not to be together that you can go on.
This is so encouraging...obviously...taking it slow as you meld together is a must! I'm "Hoping" that my W and I will be where you are today...someday! Congratulations!
And its nice to see that the 2 of you are taking it slowly, dating again. I hope all the best for your R and M to work out. You've waited a long time, just like me!
