Planet, that is a good question, amd I have no answer for it. Its one of those things she would have to explore with a therapist or by looking inward. I'm not sure why her flight response is triggered like that...
I mean I have my own theories but I've been told many times here that those are all theories and not concrete.
Like the fact that her mom left her dad, and that is a poor example. Wife was 13 at the time and at the very beginning of womanhood and very impressionable.
Like the fact that hwr mom is still married to her OM, 18 years later. She uses it as proof that you CAN find the right person. Although mother in law needs a lot of therapy and medicatiomln to this day, in order to be happy.
I also think there was some mlc mixed in. Women go through an dificult transition in their early thirties with young kids and life stresses. If they are not emotionally healthy, the pressure can be too much.
I love my wife very much, despite the mess she has created. Ill always have a special place in my heart for that woman. She really was an incredible person, and I hope i can again enjoy that persons return. The imposter I've dealt with for thirteen month is not the woman I married.
She's inside now putting D3 to bed. Not sure how this evening will go.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
