Good for you for protecting yourself that took a lot of courage. From what I understand about boundaries they are things you put in place to protect yourself. You can't set a boundary about no other woman at this point but it can be don't talk to me about working on things while still seeing Ow (or something like that)


Is he still in house or back with a friend? It would be good if you could get a few days to just be. Get over your cold, celebrate New Years and then make some decisions with a fresh head.

You are doing great.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15