Reaching out for support and advice!!

[labug]

You can move on and not D him at least not right now.

Here's why I say that, Ding him isn't going to magically change how you feel. All the hurt and pain will still be there, no matter which you choose, releasing that is going to take time.

I'm not advocating one over the other, it all depends on what you need for you. I like that you're taking steps to protect you and your children. Good steps.