Hi all,

I'm new to this part of the forum. My wife and I haven't officially separated but that seems to be coming in the next few days. For all intents and purposes however, we've been separated since I returned from work in November.

My Newcomers thread is here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2410333&page=1

I'd like to know if anyone has any advice on the separation talk. I have no job at the moment so I'm going to be dependent on my wife until I can find work but she wants to find a second place, leave my kids at our primary place and have my wife and I swap places to spend our time with the kids. That means my wife and I will share two residences just not at the same time.

If you have any opinions on what I should consider, ask, think about, whatever, I'd like to know.

Thanks for reading this and I hope to get to all of your situations soon.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014