I am going to make that tomorrow's first order of the day.
I hear you loud and clear, and come January he could get a commission. Protect, verify, and trust...in that order.
I have had some sort of an epiphany this Epiphany...The response from him was him asserting himself.
We were both passive aggressive, and he is " standing up for himself " I can see it as plain as day. He will be going overboard on this now and possibly in the future, to feel some control in his life. I need to be very much on guard, protect myself at all costs and practice validation.
Time is of the essence, and I have been forewarned...I feel a tremendous pressure to start the process, so I may breathe.
My goals:
Secure attorney
File immediately
Save the house
Call insurance agent
In that order.
Next:
Get back into the gym
STUDY twice a day
Work on one room at a time in the house
Make chicken soup
Find a way to celebrate the New Year.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay