I am going to make that tomorrow's first order of the day.

I hear you loud and clear, and come January he could get a commission. Protect, verify, and trust...in that order.

I have had some sort of an epiphany this Epiphany...The response from him was him asserting himself.

We were both passive aggressive, and he is " standing up for himself " I can see it as plain as day. He will be going overboard on this now and possibly in the future, to feel some control in his life. I need to be very much on guard, protect myself at all costs and practice validation.

Time is of the essence, and I have been forewarned...I feel a tremendous pressure to start the process, so I may breathe.

My goals:

Secure attorney

File immediately

Save the house

Call insurance agent

In that order.

Next:

Get back into the gym

STUDY twice a day

Work on one room at a time in the house

Make chicken soup

Find a way to celebrate the New Year.


Formerly Workinprogress
H :55
M :over 29 yrs.
Together : 33
D : college
D : adult
BD and left : May 2013
Separated
Experimenting/Replay

Jan 2014...Let go of rope!


God grant me the serenity...