Quote: ...what he really saw in her, I will never understand...had it been someone attractive...rich...classy..maybe those would be reasons i could see..but she is kinda on the trashy side...nothing like my h would ever pick to be with...
Exactly! You took the words out of my mouth! My H's OW is trashy also, scummy is more the word. I don't know what my H saw in her! I pictured my H with a skinny blonde...
My question to you is; Did you see signs that your H was going to come back and make this work, or was you surprised? Did it feel like a shifting?
I think you are doing great! And I loved that you went along, now SHE gets the message; loud and clear! LOL
