I took a couple of days to think it through, but i don't think I could have approached XH while he was with OW in the cinema.
I think WH was spot-on with the idea that he would have been convinced (not without foundation) that i was going to make a scene.
But more so, I just can't bring myself to have anything to do with that woman. And my kids don't want to, either.
XH rang S15 the day after the cinema episode and asked him if he wanted to go out to the dog park. S15 said he sounded sad and upset.
S15 refused and didn't speak much.
It makes me sad to think what XH has lost.
The kids and I went to the beach with the dogs. Tomorrow we are planning to go to the movies again (different cinema from now on). In the meantime, I'm planning on watching another Capra on video.
D17 is working her butt off at the fruit and veg store to get spending money. She turns 18 in 3 weeks and XH does not have to pay child support after that. Ha!