I've arrived at the point where I am going to tell H not to come home tonight and his bags of stuff will be on the porch. I had a talk with S that I will be asking his father to move out. S has known about OW since this all began which is a rule my H has broken between us and has pushed my boundary.
I'm not worried about the game as much as I am him setting a terrible example for his S. And I can no longer deal with someone who treats a marriage this way.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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