First, You are the one doing the work, we are only the lights along the path. Keep up the work and your head held high.
As for the hug....It made you feel better, so showing a little compassion isn't the worst thing.
I don't feel your wife is anywhere near the bottom....sorry bud. Be wary of the bait and run sequence. My wife pulled it many times, telling me what I wanted to hear. Actions in the end always speak louder than words.
