HI..things are going so good..I am not sure it is really real...h went goes bowling Tues..and of course "she" is his partner..so he did not think I would want to go..but if I did, I could..at first I thought no way..then thought, yeah I want to see her reaction..she was not happy with h..after bowling she told him how he had blindsided her by not telling her we were back together..hello..she has new loverboy...does not have any use for my h now..and h said again that he sees how she used him...so it was an ok evening..I just looked at her with such pity..she is on a destructive path(alcohol)..and will hurt whoever gets in her path...what he really saw in her, I will never understand...had it been someone attractive...rich...classy..maybe those would be reasons i could see..but she is kinda on the trashy side...nothing like my h would ever pick to be with...
So..things are good...we have not talked about him moving back..I like having his apt. to go to..without kids around..I can come home if I want, or since kids are old enough..I don't have to if I don't want..we are doing what we never did 25 years ago..date..have a place we could be alone..spend more time together..TALK!!!!
